I Choose to be MAGNETIC

I was thinking about a right expression to describe the feeling when you feel like the universe has your back, like when things just work out for you and if not you know that something better is coming. I call it being MAGNETIC.

If you want to feel aligned with your purpose, really feel like your true self, and attract the best for you, choose to be MAGNETIC.

What does being magnetic mean?

It means you don’t chase, you don’t pursue things out of alignment, you attract. You literally magnetize the right people, opportunities, situations, relationships, momentums.

Now this sounds great. How can you do it you ask? I have asked that myself as well.

If you are a newbie in personal development or already know a bunch, it actually might make a difference in how fast or how easily you can grasp the concept but fear not as everyone can do it.

This is, as per my personal opinion and experience, simple yet very powerful and sometimes quite challenging thing to embody. As we all have different backgrounds, different experiences behind us and are on different levels of inner work. However after being on the self development journey for a couple of years I can tell this one is just fantastic. It helped me in quite short time change my perspective and attract things more easily and effortlessly.

I am a sucker for personal growth that’s why I am going through many courses connected to this topic. I am also a certified coach as helping people see different perspectives just fascinates me and brings me so much joy and meaning.

So what I will try to do here is to provide the best practices and insights from all the information and experiences I’ve walked through.

I’d say all these tools you can find online, both free or paid, can help you be magnetic. I trully believe it won’t really work unless you meet below points;

1. Get clear on why you’re doing this meaning what you want to get from it and be specific
2. Actually create time and space in your life for this new thing because if you’re constantly hustling and will just squeeze this in between nothing will change and you’ll be more frustrated
3. Learn from someone who’s not a complete stranger to you, meaning you don’t have to be friends that’d be extremely hard but get to know the person, what content they create, what voice they use, what life they live. I know it’s very challenging to feel connected to someone just through social media but this is really important because otherwise you will just end up fleeting and regretting investing in it (either time or money)
4. Find your expander – find a person who already has the life you want to have, the magnetic energy they attract all the things in their life. This again can be anyone around you, online, only you know who this person will be

To be honest I find it easier to follow if I commit which is mostly happening if I get something tangible from it or I will invest. Pay for a course for example. This is my personal approach and I will leave it on every and each of you to find your own path. But this works the best for me. I also have a couple of sources I always go to and typically don’t buy a course from someone I have just randomly met on Instagram. Once I spend some time following this person and I see they align with my values then I do invest.

I don’t say this is the way you won’t get disappointed. I did once. But maybe it was just because I ended up not liking the style of the course. Maybe something else. Even though let’s say the content was just fine I didn’t end up using it because I just couldn’t get through it.

I have one simple advice. Take your time. And then take the step.

I say even if you end up with the “wrong” option for you it’ll never be lost time or money because you decided to invest in yourself. In your future. And that’s always hard and courageous and you should be proud of yourself.

Let’s go back to being magnetic now.

I have put together below questions that if you answer truthfully to yourself and without any limiting belief and obstacles you are on a way to shine bright and attract. Now again my recommendation is to journal on each section separately, let it sink and do it without a rush. Play meditation music and read the questions out loud before journaling.

I have prepared a workbook you can access and download here. You can also find it in FREEBIES.

Remember that 2026 is your year. You can do whatever you put in your heart, and you’re a winner with the first step already.

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