Have you ever dreamed of something, only to be let down when you finally got it because you’d put it on a pedestal? Well, this isn’t one of those stories. I finally took myself on a trip I’d been dreaming of for years—a journey to New York City. For ten days, I wandered the streets of this vibrant city that never sleeps, accompanied by a friend and a New Yorker to guide us.
The moment I stepped into New York, I wondered if my high expectations would lead to disappointment. But that worry was short-lived, swiftly overshadowed by jet lag, a delayed suitcase, and hunger.
Once we dove into exploring, shopping, and capturing memories, we were completely taken in. Coffee awaited at every corner, shopping was abundant, Times Square’s lights were dazzling, and we even walked a leisurely 20 kilometers along the Hudson River.
“I love you New York”
My friends from all around the world, whom I gained from living abroad, reply to my Instagram stories;
“I love New York so much; it’s my favorite place in the world.” The universal love for this city is uncanny. I always remind myself that visiting a place is different from living there, keeping my excitement in check since I’ve lived in Sydney, Australia, for three years.
Let me assure you, I love it here. It’s the diversity and the posh atmosphere of Manhattan, yet the people are just regular folks. And by regular, I mean people like you and me, because I imagined everyone in Manhattan would be dressed super posh and business-like.
While I can’t speak to the living standards, education, or healthcare, I understand the excitement from a visitor’s perspective.
There’s so much diversity on one island—it’s rare and somehow mysterious at the same time. I’d compare it to affirmation cards; you know, like when a card says something so deep and positive that you can relate to it completely? Well, that’s New York for me. Everyone will find exactly what they need, and it will be amazing and inspiring.
Manhattan wasn’t as I had imagined it. It was different—some things were better, some were worse—but it’s Manhattan, so hello!
Beyond the famous landmarks, I was lucky to be guided by a true New Yorker, or whatever you call someone who’s lived here for over 20 years. That’s what made it special. Everyone visits the main attractions, but the hidden gems shown by a local guide? That’s the real deal.
I’m the type of traveler who feels the energy of a place. I avoid spots that don’t resonate with me, so what stood out wasn’t the Statue of Liberty or even Central Park (living in Sydney made Central Park seem a bit underwhelming). It was the cozy vibe of walking in Williamsburg, the ferry ride that reminded me Sydney so much, and the moments that made me feel anything was possible. So much energy. I loved it.
I can’t remember the last time I smiled all day, every day. New York left me happy and at ease. Despite its size and the crowds, the city gave me a sense of calm. It’s a sign of something great, a connection I didn’t know I had.
What would I recommend? Find a local to share what they love. New Yorkers adore their city and know it best. Try a speakeasy cocktail, savor the best New York pizza, take a ferry ride, buy a record in the West Village, or a vintage poster in Greenwich Village.
So, do I want to live in New York?
To be completely honest, I always live by the mantra “never say never.” So, I won’t say it now either, but I’ll simply say: the answer is no.
Do I like New York?
Like?
Excuse me.
I love it.
And trust me, this won’t be my last visit.
What I Loved and Recommend in NYC:
Food and Bars
- Little Collins: A must-visit for fellow breakfast lovers.
- Champion Pizza
- Little Branch: A speakeasy experience.
- Black Brick Coffee in Williamsburg
- Angelina Bakery
Places
- High Line: A super interesting walk in the sky. Well, not literally, but in between the higher floors of the skyscrapers.
- Ferry to Staten Island: A chance to see the Statue of Liberty (how come it looks so small?).
- Brooklyn Heights: This offers one of the most beautiful views of Manhattan.
- Domino Park: stunning city views from Brooklyn with one of the most beautiful building, a former sugar refinery, with such a personality that’s hard to find
- Frying Pan: A cool old ship concept with a bar on the deck, making you feel like you’re on vacation rather than in a busy metropolitan city.
- Times Square: I think this is the most “classic” sightseeing spot we visited, but I’m so glad we did. I was stunned by it. The sun was slowly setting, making the lights from everywhere look like magic. We were also lucky to be there at a time when there was live music in the form of a DJ, and the party music gave us just the vibe that ensured we’ll never forget this place.
- Bryant Park: Possibly the cutest park I’ve seen in NYC, located next to the NY Public Library.
- Broadway Theatre Musical: I mean, if you are a fan of musicals, dancing, or music, this is a real gem. We saw “The Great Gatsby,” and though I didn’t expect anything less than perfection, I was still stunned. So worth the bucks!
What Saved Me Nerves and Time
- Citymapper: an incredibly useful app for a public transport
- Yesim: for eSIM around the world
- International card with local currency (Revolut or Wise)
- Getting familiar with how taxes and tips work in the US
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